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Tuesday, June 15, 2010

Tips to treating a lady


  • When you are at a restaurant, sit across from her at the table (unless the table is really long, in which case you should sit next to her). Allow her to sit facing the room, while you face the wall. This way you give the impression that you require no view other than her beauty.

  • Taking her to places that cost lots of money isn't necessary. Take her to the park, maybe buy ice cream on the way; that way you interact with her. If you do go to the movies, plan on going for coffee or dessert after (which means a light dinner, and less expense - bonus!) so that you can talk about what you just saw.
  • Take things slow. Don't rush into an emotional or physical attachment just because you think you should.
  • Look her directly in the eyes when you speak to her or when she is speaking to you. But don't be creepy about it. Staring is not considered attentiveness; it's considered weird.
  • Pay careful attention to your manners at all times.
  • Show that you are impressed by her, but don't forget to impress her with something different. Show you are different and sometimes crazy about life. Show her something that only you have got.
  • While most young women aren't overly analyzing things, once you start dating, she's appraising you: what you do, how you dress, dates you take them on, and lots of other things. Take this into account and dress for the situation, as a good balance will keep her impressed. There's no point in dressing to impress, then being cheap about where you take her. It's like going to a nice restaurant in a tracksuit.
  • Avoid the temptation to idolize her or put her on a pedestal. She is as human as you are, and the more willing you are to accept that, the less likely she is to disappoint you.
  • Arrogant men don't get all the girls, confident guys do, and there's a huge difference. Women are less visually-oriented than men are, so even if you're not the most attractive guy in the world, your confidence will suggest that you're someone worth being with, and your personality will back up that suggestion. Plus, if you are kind and warm when interacting with her and with others, she will see your value without your needing to have movie-star good looks. Just act and dress like a gentleman, and everything should be sweet.
  • Opening doors and pulling out chairs for the girl is not old fashioned and square, it's sweet! Any girl likes a boy who will treat her well, one who is not afraid to be sweet to her.
  • Hold her close to you, and be gentle when it's necessary.
  • Don't swear excessively or be crude. If you act immaturely, she is less likely to enjoy your company.
  • Put yourself in her place and treat her accordingly. In other words, how would you wish to be treated, if you were her?
  • Remember: no matter how hard you're working to Get The Girl, it's all but guaranteed that she is trying just as hard to find Mr. Right. A girl isn't that mystifying or distant of a creature, and she wants to loveand be loved just as much as you do.
  • Hold her hand, especially if you catch her dangling it surreptitiously behind her. A girl loves the "togetherness" feeling of holding hands, not to mention you're affirming your interest in each other publicly without being crude. In other words, you're proud of her, and a man who can take pride in her will make any girl feel that they are treated well.
  • When she is going to take on a challenge, take interest in what she is doing, and wish her good luck. Or maybe even explore this challenge with her? Make it interesting.
  • Do not lie! It's pointless and she WILL find out. Just be yourself.
  • If she's upset or angry, let her vent her feelings towards you. Talk about her problems, but don't try to take over and fix everything. You could end up making things worse for her. While she needs to handle her problem herself, if you allow her to talk it over with you, it will make her realise that you care for her. She will appreciate it, and if she goes through even more rough times, she'll know who to talk to. This will build up trust and loyalty between the two of you.
  • Treat her with the same respect you would to your future wife.
  • Remember to always compliment her. Just because you're going out doesn't mean she can't change her mind if she thinks you've forgotten her.
  • Make sure you are yourself and if she doesnt like that there is no point of faking yourself for her to like you. Act as you would normally do.

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